{"id":5531,"date":"2026-01-22T11:53:42","date_gmt":"2026-01-22T09:53:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/?p=5531"},"modified":"2026-01-22T11:53:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-22T09:53:42","slug":"6-signs-partner-extremely-selfish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/?p=5531","title":{"rendered":"6 Signs Your Partner Is Extremely Selfish"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A relationship is a two-way street. When one person is selfish beyond measure, the relationship is bound to hit some bumps in the road until it falls apart completely. Selfishness can cause resentment, animosity and pain. <span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-126\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-111\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span>If your partner is being selfish, it\u2019s time to sit down and talk things through. If you\u2019re the one displaying selfish tendencies, you\u2019ll want to re-think your behavior if you want the relationship to last.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here are six signs your partner is extremely selfish:<\/strong><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-112\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-113\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-127\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-132\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-133\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>1. They Want Everything To Happen On Their Terms<\/h3>\n<p>For a selfish person, it\u2019s their way or the highway. A major sign that you\u2019re in a relationship with a selfish person is they demand that everything happens on their terms. They make all the plans and all the decisions and are unwilling to compromise.<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-153\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-114\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span>2. The Majority Of Communication Is Negative Or Neutral<\/h3>\n<p><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-146\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span>A selfish person doesn\u2019t consider anyone else\u2019s feelings. That means they <span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-128\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-106\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span>don\u2019t care enough to ask you how your day went or congratulate you on an achievement. If the majority of communication with your partner is negative or neutral, it\u2019s a clear sign that they are only thinking about themselves.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5532\" src=\"http:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-fight-04-e1480792502674.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-fight-04-e1480792502674.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-fight-04-e1480792502674-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-fight-04-e1480792502674-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-fight-04-e1480792502674-449x300.jpg 449w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>3. They Don\u2019t Put Forth Any Effort<\/h3>\n<p>Lack of effort is another sign that you\u2019re in a relationship with a selfish person. They aren\u2019t willing to go the extra mile to make you happy, to compliment you or to surprise you with an impromptu date night, because they are too selfish to think about what you might want or need.<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-139\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-143\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>4. They Don\u2019t Want To Commit<\/h3>\n<p><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-116\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-137\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-138\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span>A selfish person might claim to be uncomfortable with the word boyfriend or girlfriend. Lack of commitment, especially after a long period of time, is a sign that they are using you. They want to keep you around and string you along for their own needs, but they are too selfish to commit even though they know that\u2019s what will make you happy.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5533\" src=\"http:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/fighting-3-e1462812125759.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/fighting-3-e1462812125759.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/fighting-3-e1462812125759-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/fighting-3-e1462812125759-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/fighting-3-e1462812125759-449x300.jpg 449w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>5. They Flirt With Other People<\/h3>\n<p>If your partner purposefully flirts with other people in front of you, they are both selfish and immature. They clearly don\u2019t care about how you feel, and they don\u2019t stop to think about how their actions are hurting you. They are selfish to their core.<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-117\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-140\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span>6. They Don\u2019t Take Responsibility For Their Actions<\/h3>\n<p>Selfish people never think they are wrong. They are willing to put the blame on anyone and everyone if it means they don\u2019t have to apologize or admit to any wrongdoing. If your partner refuses to take responsibility for their actions or admit when they\u2019re wrong, they are truly selfish.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A relationship is a two-way street. When one person is selfish beyond measure, the relationship is bound to hit some bumps in the road until it falls apart completely. Selfishness can cause resentment, animosity and pain. If your partner is being selfish, it\u2019s time to sit down and talk things through. If you\u2019re the one&#8230; <\/p>\n<div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/?p=5531\">Read More<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":5534,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5531"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5531"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5531\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5535,"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5531\/revisions\/5535"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5534"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}