{"id":4951,"date":"2025-12-22T16:35:21","date_gmt":"2025-12-22T14:35:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/?p=4951"},"modified":"2025-12-22T16:35:21","modified_gmt":"2025-12-22T14:35:21","slug":"children-personality-traits-likely-successful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/?p=4951","title":{"rendered":"Children With These Personality Traits Are More Likely To Be Successful"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you have your hands full raising a particularly stubborn child, it can be easy to feel defeated. You might wonder if you\u2019re doing or saying the right things, or you might be concerned about your child growing up with such strong personality traits. But it turns out, your stubborn child is going to be A OK.\u00a0According to a study published by the <span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-126\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-111\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span>American Psychological Association, stubborn children who defy authority are more likely to become academic overachievers and successful adults.<\/p>\n<h3>The Study<\/h3>\n<p><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-113\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-132\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-133\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span>Researchers studied children between the ages of 8 and 12. They assessed each child for various personality traits, including academic conscientiousness, entitlement and defiance. After 40 years, the researchers checked in on the participants, now adults, to see how they had evolved.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4952\" src=\"http:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid-300x230.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid-768x590.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid-391x300.jpg 391w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The study found that the children who were considered stubborn and most likely to defy authority ended up becoming more successful than their peers. Researchers concluded that overall, this group of children became <span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-128\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-106\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.scarymommy.com\/stubborn-child-likely-succeed\/?utm_medium=partner&amp;utm_source=jumblejoy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">academic overachievers and high-earning adults<\/a>. It turns out that rule-breaking and defiance of parental authority were the best predictors of earning a high income as an adult.<\/p>\n<p>While the study doesn\u2019t explain exactly why there is such a strong correlation between stubbornness and defiance in children and a high income as an adult, the study\u2019s authors have their theories. They say that such children might be more competitive in the classroom, which leads to better grades. They might also be more demanding as adults, which can come in handy during salary negotiations and handling their finances.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4953\" src=\"http:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid-playing-2-e1467125023335.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid-playing-2-e1467125023335.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid-playing-2-e1467125023335-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid-playing-2-e1467125023335-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.loveforhealthyfood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/kid-playing-2-e1467125023335-449x300.jpg 449w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Therapists say that strong-willed children are also more willing to do what\u2019s right,<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-121\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span> instead of what their friends are doing. So as a parent, if you\u2019re able to motivate your strong-willed child to use their drive toward doing well in school, your kid might just turn out to be a motivated leader who sets a good example.<\/p>\n<p>So how exactly do you get through to a stubborn child? Follow the tips<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-118\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span> below:<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-130\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Hear Them Out<\/strong> \u2013 Keep an open conversation and approach your child in a calm and practical manner instead of being confrontational.<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-117\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Don\u2019t Force Them<\/strong> \u2013 Forcing a stubborn child to do something is guaranteeing that they\u2019ll rebel. Try to connect with them and understand their reasoning.<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-149\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-154\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Give Them Options<\/strong><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-120\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span> \u2013 Instead of telling your child to go to bed, ask which bedtime story they want to read. Try options instead of demands.<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-107\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-119\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-129\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Stay Calm<\/strong> \u2013 Help your child understand how to behave by staying clam. Don\u2019t turn a conversation into a shouting match.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Negotiate<\/strong> \u2013 Sometimes, negotiation works best. Be practical, but considerate. Try to find a solution that works for both of you.<span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-155\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><span id=\"ezoic-pub-ad-placeholder-145\" class=\"ezoic-adpicker-ad\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Parenting a stubborn child can be tough, but once they learn to focus their determination on something positive, there\u2019s no stopping them!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you have your hands full raising a particularly stubborn child, it can be easy to feel defeated. You might wonder if you\u2019re doing or saying the right things, or you might be concerned about your child growing up with such strong personality traits. 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